I wrote this to help those out there who are thinking of or who are going through the phase of transition. It is first set with a bio of my own life as I went through transition and then there are sections on how to go through the total life change. It tells of pitfalls and how to avoid them. It tells what to buy, sizings of clothing, how to act so that you don't stand out in a crowd but become part of it, and how to feel better about yourself. It is best to remember that you are not trying to pass for a woman but to actually be a woman inside and out.