This is a auto biography and a self help book all in one. The life story of a really nice guy who seems to finish last when it comes to love, and releationships. As the road of life has been tough, he has learned to deal with adversity, and come back stronger then before. As you read this book, you'll not be able to jsut read one chapter, but you'll want to read every chapter in one sitting. The self help part of this book is about lessons learned and a live lived that has spanned 35 years, and still going strong.