My ex-husband and I went to counseling together and we got divorced anyway.Years later I tried going to a therapist when my business closed but I found buying new shoes more therapeutic and less expensive.One of my closest friends went to counseling for more than three years but still suffered from the same anxieties, same feelings of guilt, inadequacies, and, you guessed it... one less relationship.I spent years trying to get the wrong people to like me and the right people to love me even more to make up for the things I didn't like about myself. All I wanted was to be happy, successful, feel like I contributed to someone or something important, and have enough money to take a vacation or two. You know, the same things that you want. Then one day, I figured it out. I had been going about it all wrong. I want this to be your day. I want you to learn my secret...