In the sight of God, both men and women are equal Heirs of His kingdom. This is what matters but since people are still living as husband and wife in the now, the aim should be for oneness. When a wife rebels against her duty of marriage, she is rebelling against God and His plan for her marriage resulting in her marriage having difficulties. When the man is not fulfilling his duty as husband, she will find it difficult to submit to him. The pressure of having rebellious women has made men to feel emasculated by their wives leading to them looking outside of the house for a suitable person who will treat them like men. By destroying one link in a marriage will ultimately lead to the marriage having no leg to stand on. The husband should give his wife what she is entitled to in the marriage relationship, and the wife should do the same for her husband The wife is not in charge of her own body, but her husband is; likewise the husband is not in charge of his own body, but his wife is. Do not deprive each other, except for a limited time, by mutual agreement. Get to know your differences and stop destroying each other through drought.