Survivors of sexual and domestic abuse in Christian Fundamentalism have been neglected and vilified by the teachings of Walter Fremont, Jim Berg, Bob Wood, Jack Hyles, Bill Gothard, and others. All of these men, as well as the behaviorist system called Nouthetic Counseling, are guilty of deceit in representing themselves as experts at counseling. They are also guilty of gross ignorance of the Bible. It is entirely possible for the Christian believer to live a life of triumph after abuse. And this is not by the old, discredited method of Christian Fundamentalism's "Biblical Principles" (that were not actually Biblical, overall). Jeri Massi offers readers a method of making choices day to day to ascend through grief, manage emotions, and build a stable, calm outlook .