Understanding that each parent has a unique parenting style and a unique place in the upbringing of a child makes a whole lot of difference in finding the right balance that will mold the kids to responsible adults. 'Smart parenting' includes: ¿ Why this teenager parenting book is different ¿ Who is the modern teen? ¿ How different is the modern teen? ¿ Communicating with the modern teen ¿ Establishing and sustaining trust with your teenager ¿ Setting boundaries that you and your teen can respect ¿ Managing sexual attitudes and behaviors ¿ Discussing serious issues with your teen ¿ Promoting teenage self-esteem ¿ Preventing teen depression ¿ And much, much more... They will begin to take those first steps towards independence. As they grow, they begin testing boundaries in new and often frustrating ways.