Why is it that some people can feel at peace under any situation while others cannot? Some people can feel at peace under any situation while others cannot because they are better Emotional Managers than others. What makes them better Emotional Manager than others? They have a Different Perception and Belief that allows them to see and believe that people have a choice of how they feel. They believe a person can either choose to feel at peace or not in any challenging situation. They have made a Sincere Decision to make feeling at peace more important than any uncomfortable feeling. They have a hero-like ability to summon the Courage, Faith, Wisdom, and Passion to relentlessly make a conscious act of will to choose to feel at peace regardless of the circumstances they are dealing with. They have the ability to Silence their Mind's Critical Voice that can disrupt their peace of mind when they are tempted to pass judgments. And they have the ability to Deal with Silent Mood Shifters, Unfavorable Outcomes and Respond to Threats and Desires all in a Sound Manner. How did they obtain these abilities? These abilities were downloaded into them by forces within their environment. Love objects: baby sitters; parents; mentors; associations; leaders; etc. Overtime these abilities became a part of their normal thoughts, behaviors and reactions processes. My Problem was that I was not programmed to be a good Emotional Manager by my environmental influencers. My brain was not wired in that fashion. Instead I was implanted with a perception and belief that did not allow me to see and believe that I had a choice of how I felt under any circumstances. I was not taught to make feeling at peace more important than any un-peaceful feeling or how to persistently use my will, courage, faith, wisdom and passion to choose feeling at peace while dealing with un-peaceful situations. I never learned how to consistently silence my mind's critical voice or deal with silent mood shifters, unfavorable outcomes and respond to threats and desires all in a sound manner. But I was able to change all of that. How? I studied, and asked questions after questions until I developed a thorough and in depth self-awareness of why I was unable to consistently feel at peace while dealing with certain situations while others were able to. With this knowledge and self-awareness I formalized a practical Seven Step Process that has helped me to become a better Emotional Manager, gain the ability to Feel at Peace in Spite of Life Situations, and more often than not, be the Master of Life situations instead of being mastered by life situations.