The worse thing to do is to forget how to love and all the many ways there are to loving someone you are intimate with. "Pickin Kottyn's" Poetry is to refresh your memory on the many ways to love your man or woman as well as showing him/her how you love. Sometimes we want to make love and sometimes we just want it strong and hard. Let's not forget the simple moments of just giving eye contact or a slight brush across my back...these are still ways for someone to show their love for you.