Public exhibition of risky behavior, poor judgment, and unchecked egos boosts the "buzz" about our celebrities, athletic icons, and politicians. Tragically, bad conduct is our best kept public secret; we all know about it, experience it, and are challenged by it daily - but we don't publicly acknowledge it; rather, we fear doing so would reveal us to be insecure and expose us as not being a good team player. Unfortunately, our lousy social behavior translates into the playgrounds and campuses of public and private schools across America - known best as "hazing" at colleges/university (our institutions of higher learning), and "bullying" during our pre-K through high school "education." Wesley Miller shines a light on how this public secret poisons the minds of middle and senior managers in our workplace; making our lives a living hell and souring the attitudes we bring home to our families. Our legends say, "Knowing the true name of a demon is the way of controlling the beast." Miller gives us those "true names" so we can free ourselves - and he lets us chuckle while we name our public secret