Have you been cut off the freeway one too many times? Do your kids rule the roost and does your spouse blame you for things you can't control? If you have been building up a head of steam over these and other indignities, try Carole Frankel's approach to remaining cool and calm. In a hilarious compendium of life's daily frustrations, Ms. Frankel has assigned point values to those events that make you see red, when you collect enough points, you can reward yourself. Instead of allowing life's aggravations to make you furious, you can learn to laugh and take it easy when life don't play fair.