Having a baby is a true undertaking. You can't just survive it, you have to be a part of it - especially if you're married or plan on being an active father. If you try to skate by and let momma make the decisions, or care for the kiddo, you're already on her shit-list. Being an active father starts by being involved in the decision making process every step of the way. Poop Flies at 35 m.p.h. isn't another "survival guide;" but a participation guide for how dads can be involved in every step of having a kid; from choosing a doctor to painting a room, delivery and the first year. It's a collection of life stories as they happened, information about the changes that lie ahead, ideas to make things easier for both of you, and a reality check for anyone disillusioned about the reality of fatherhood.