On each of these pages you will find a question. Some are quirky. Some are kinky. Some will make you chuckle. And some will make you cry. Each is a conversation starter designed to help you and your partner achieve more intimacy; emotional intimacy, that is. (And I suppose that more emotional intimacy might lead to more physical intimacy, but I'll leave that for you two to figure out.) How many times has your partner misunderstood you? And can you guess how many times you have misunderstood them? I wonder how much of this could be cured by a deeper understanding of what is in their heart? Deep understanding: that just might be the key. Unabashed sharing: that just might help. There is more to this philosophy than just being truthful with your partner. In fact, these questions don't go the traditional therapy route; I'll leave that to the professionals. Instead, the questions are about dreams. They are about desires. They are about vulnerability. And so I ask you to cuddle up next to that person you love so much. Cuddle up in the darkness, feet touching, with a blanket of warmth around you. Let your inhibitions step aside for now. Take turns asking a single question at a time, and let the responses lead you where they may. It is my hope that things will be just a bit more intimate tonight. And tomorrow you'll be a stronger couple. I promise.