The Shocking Underground Classic on Dating and Sexual Intelligence... A woman is not sexually attracted to you by how you look, how old you are, or how much money you make. She is attracted to your innate sexuality as a man. Everything else is unimportant. A woman wants a man who sexually knows what he desires, and then takes it - while not needlessly flaunting what he's doing. She wants a trustworthy man with common sense who knows who he is. She wants a man that will, literally and figuratively, take her. That man can be you.