Relationship coach and professional speaker Laura Dewey spent years looking for the right guy. She perched herself with a glass of wine at countless restaurant bars with the hope that some man would scoop her up and make her his. Any man. To her surprise, that didn't work. It was when she stumbled down a spiritual path that Laura woke up to herself. She realized that she was the reason she was single, and committed to do the work required to get herself out of her own way. It worked Laura found her soulmate where she least expected. In these pages, Laura shares her formula for finding the light within, the joyful ray of self-acceptance that is a beacon for great friends and a loving husband. Using humor, depth, and twelve essential steps, this book teaches you to shine your own light brightly enough to illuminate your beauty and your beloved. Are you ready to stop waiting? Then start reading.