In this candid and relatable book, Kay Monét details the activities of her promiscuous lifestyle and the lessons learned throughout her lust-infused fauxmances. Her journey was filled with trauma and embarrassment, but instead of seeking wise counsel, she settled for one raggedy situationship after another. Eventually, with God's guidance, she got her life back on track; but only after receiving massive blows to her self-esteem. It is her hope to inspire others to refuse to allow their past mistakes to destroy their future relationships. By adopting the principles below, as well as the other gems sprinkled through the book, you will be able to avoid toxic talking phases and begin dating according to your self-worth. Codependency Doesn't Equal Compatibility Red Flags Shouldn't be Treated as Red Carpets Sex Only Temporarily Numbs the Pain Enhance the Way you Present Yourself Church Girls Aren't Always Innocent Keep Your Options Open but Your Legs Closed Sending in Your Representative Always Backfires Make Sure They Are Really Single