Once upon a time in the fairy tales, people risked it all for love and couples lived happily ever after. Then something changed. People became complacent, lazy, even oblivious and began misinterpreting the most basic forms of communication. Suddenly humans were lost and the most common happily ever after was post-break-up. Yet there was still HOPE Based on the consistently repeated mistakes of many, Spelling It Out for Your Man offers a candid, funny and non-judgmental view of the exploration of what's really going on in the minds of men and women regarding sex and love, as well as what entices people to attract and stay attracted to one another. Julieanne O'Connor's intention is to inspire people to tap into their own sexuality, to release the need for the illusion of ownership, and to evoke the desire in everyone to open their hearts wider still.