Let me ask a profound question. Are you surviving or starving in your relationship? Staying too late or leaving too soon is not just about a movement...it is about a mindset. What is the current health OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP? What is the conclusion? Have your eyes being playing tricks on you? Did your mind trap you? Or is your heart telling you the truth? I found out either we are belonging or we are prolonging. Too many times we facilitate behaviors that are not compatible with our request. Thereby, settling to a desire, that contradicts design that has been chosen by God. If not careful, you will become too comfortable, and it will become too convenient, and you never become convicted. Only truth sets you free. Is this a relationship or relation trap? Author - Elder Tim Grier native from Charlotte N.C married to Angier Grier has 5 children and 7 Grandchildren. He is assistant Pastor to Bishop Kevin L. Long at Temple Church International also serves as the Youth Pastor. A business man, manager, counselor, life coach. He believes: that if any man be in Christ he is new, and old things are passed away. He also challenges individuals to give their best in all that they do. You can reach out to him: ELDER Tim Grier Facebook- or timgrier0614@yahoo.com for questions or comments. For counseling, seminars, engagements