Not long after the murder of my sister, Laura, a local school teacher prompted me to tell Laura's story for the first time to her health students. That school teacher will remember that as I stood in front of them trying to put the story into some logical format, I became sweat soaked and struggled. But, that is where my advocacy began. It was then suggested to me that I write down the words of my presentation and share it with those who may never hear me speak on this topic. The following is my best attempt to capture not only the words, but also the passion of my desire to stop relationship violence in as many lives as possible. Be aware of the warning signs. Find out how to escape. Know how to give a helping hand. I hope this book helps someone in the heat of this dangerous battle.