Have you ever been in a relationship where you started to question your own sanity? Or one in which you were beaten, punched, verbally and emotionally abused to the extent that you thought that you deserved it? Are you in a relationship where you are blamed for EVERTHING that goes wrong, including his temper? Has it ever occured to you that you might be in an abusive relationships? This book will help you recognize abusive behavior, what the best course of action might be if you are a victim of abuse and more importantly, it offers practical advice on how to deal with the Abuser should you decide to remain in the relationship. It takes the view that it is not only women who are abused but men are too. The book also touches on the subject of self-abuse.