There aren't any set rules when it comes to a successful relationship. However, those that last are based on honesty, communication, and a healthy sex life. With these elements in place, there is little to fight about or events that can't be overcome. Yet when you are with the same person all the time, you may find it becomes a predictable routine. You may really love them but you sure long for the times when there was more passion and spontaneous sex taking place. Talking dirty is a way for you to get that back. It is going to surprise your partner and it is going to change things for the better. Unsure how to get started? Don't worry; you are going to learn the best practices and ways to make it comfortable as well as fun. You are going to learn how to become more confident so that talking dirty seems natural and not forced. You will also feel good about yourself and about how you can use this method to really connect with your partner. Here are just a few of the reasons why you should think about talking dirty with your partner. - Make it fun - Make it personal - Keep it moving forward - Embrace your sexual self - Please your partner - Feel confident in your relationship - Keep your sex life from becoming boring or predictable - Enjoy sex more frequently - Encourages them to fulfill your sexual desires - Carries over to other areas of your life in positive ways Just about everyone has a mobile phone these days for convenience. Why not use it as a way to spark the relationship? Learn how to send successful text messages that will get your lover thinking about you all day long You can also call and leave a sexy voicemail or engage in some exchanges that are going to get them rushing to you as soon as they can. Emails are very common too, and you will learn how to use them to create sexual fantasies. Perhaps the most difficult part of dirty talk for most people is doing it in person. As you become more confident on these other fronts, it will be easier for you to engage in it and not feel uncomfortable. Avoiding common mistakes along the way will make dirty talk more enticing and make you feel more empowered. You don't want to get mixed up with sending pictures, videos, or any written materials to someone that could possibly use it against you later on. Being very selective with who you share such information with is very important. The two of you should protect this part of your relationship. Keep it private as a bond you share only with each other. People will wonder how you continue to be so in love with each other and so connected Let them guess... Finding common ground in any intimate relationship is going to serve you well. The problem is that too many couples don't talk about it. They don't share what they desire or what is lacking. They don't express what they enjoy and what they like the most. Being open and really talking about sexual activities makes a huge difference. Keep in mind that dirty talk also engages the mind. We all think about sex often, some more than others. Yet when someone it talking to us about it, we are going to have more positive emotions and chemicals in the brain to boost our mood. This is the link to making the physical part of sex much more than just the act itself. It comes down to who we share it with that makes it magical. Learning that dirty talk is common and encouraged can also change your mindset about it. Too many people think it can make them look trashy or that they won't be good at it. Opening up about what you like sexually and letting your partner know you want to please them is the secret to a very good sex life. As you learn about dirty talk, it is going to be something you are eager to try. Learn techniques to get the ball rolling and see where it goes. Find out if your partner is responsive and if they are willing to try this with you. The answer may surprise you