Have you ever been in a romantic relationship and completely surrendered yourself to the other person? Answer: Yes. Then you found out that person has decided to move on? Answer: Yes. Well, guess what that person wasn't into you. This same scenario is played out constantly in the workforce. You find a job. You give it the best years of your life and then one day you are pink slipped Ouch How and why did that happen? Well, that job just wasn't in to you. Move on