Finally, here is a bridal guide book to expedite the fluidity of the reception. This is a wedding planning book through the eyes of non-bias people who have infinitely more experience with banquets than a traditional bride would... the wait staff. Learn how to avoid errors that may hinder the most important day of your relational life. This book would be a great bridal shower gift. It's a little tongue in cheek, a little serious, a little eye-opening, but always beneficial. Read about tips on buffet verses plated meals. Learn of options of floral meanings. You are shown examples of previous mistakes make by other brides and how to avoid them. Learn some unique ideas like cake centerpieces and table numbers. See samples of actual menus which make even the chefs roll their eyes. Sales personnel will promise you everything, but know that it doesn't mean it will work smoothly and they aren't the ones who have to act on those decisions. We servers do.