The Divorced Child: Strengthening Your Family Through the First Three Years of Separation
en Limba Engleză Paperback – 28 ian 2010
Divorce is a reality of today's family life, but clinical research has shown that it is possible to mitigate its negative effects on children. Dr. Joseph Nowinski, a family therapist with over 20 years of experience treating families, argues that there is a three-year window in which to acclimate children to the change in family life. Combining case studies with new research, Dr. Nowinski gives parents the information and the tools to work through the transition. Written in a warm and authoritative tone, Nowinski will teach parents to:
. Focus on your child's new day-to-day reality
. Identify early signs of trouble
. Help your child through the separation process and help them develop coping skills that will remain with them through life"
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Specificații
ISBN-10: 0230617727
Pagini: 231
Ilustrații: black & white illustrations
Dimensiuni: 137 x 206 x 18 mm
Greutate: 0.2 kg
Editura: Palgrave MacMillan
Locul publicării:Basingstoke, United Kingdom
Descriere
· Focus on your child's new day-to-day reality
· Identify early signs of trouble
· Help your child through the separation process and help them develop coping skills that will remain with them through life
Cuprins
Introduction: The Three Crucial Years: What Parents Need to Know about Children and Divorce
PART I: CHILD-CENTERED DIVORCE
The Divorced Family
Talking to Children about Divorce
Relocating
Shared Parenting: The New Look in Child Custody
PART II: UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF: HOW TO BE PART OF THE SOLUTION AND NOT PART OF THE PROBLEM
How 'Resilient' Are You?
Your Emotional Health and Your Child
How Balanced is Your Life Style?
Healthy versus Unhealthy Ways of Relieving Your Stress
PART III: THE THREE CRUCIAL YEARS: AGES 1-5
Separation and Attachment
The Need for Exploration
Divorce and Insecurity
Building and Maintaining a Support Network
PART IV: THE THREE CRUCIAL YEARS: AGES 6-11
Guiding Your Child toward Healthy Peer Groups
The Importance of Structure, Predictability, and Routine
Direction and Discipline
Tantrums and Oppositional Behaviour
School and Social Phobias
Guarding against Academic Failure
Alcohol and Drugs
PART V: THE THREE CRUCIAL YEARS: AGES 12-18
Understanding Identity
Helping Teens Answer the Question: Who am I?
Helping Teens Answer the Question: What do I stand for?
Helping Teens Answer the Question: Where am I going?
New Beginnings
Conclusion
Chapter Notes
Recenzii
'Dr. Nowinski provides step-by-step guidance that helps divorcing parents achieve their ultimate goal: doing what's best for the children. Through anecdotes and his formidable expertise, he gives detailed support for the spectrum of issues and developmental stages that children experience during this transition and beyond. Parents facing divorce who are struggling to do what's right by their kids will definitely want Dr. Nowinski in their corner.' - Andrea Bonior, Ph.D., 'Baggage Check' mental health columnist, Washington Post Express
'The Divorced Child is a plain speaking, insightful book that gives parents who are contemplating divorce a road map ahead. While the book focuses on the child of divorce, it also serves to navigate for the parents. The helpful anecdotes from Dr. Nowinski's practice give a realistic and practical flavor to his counsel. He wisely approaches advice for the child according to his developmental stage. While no family wants to need such a book, if divorce lies ahead, consider using this book as a guide to your future parenting.' - Victoria McEvoy, M.D., Medical Director and Chief of Pediatrics at Mass General West Medical Group and Assistant Professor of Pediatrics at Harvard Medical School
'I can't wait to give this book to the divorcing and divorced families with whom I work! It is down-to-earth, practical and yet integrated with the author's knowledge of child and family developmental issues and tasks. The incorporation of real case illustrations will make this unique book invaluable to readers - both lay and professional. Dr. Nowinski is an excellent writer who is able to apply his vast clinical experience to help families through the complex process of separation and divorce.' - Barbara F. Okun, Ph.D., Northeastern University and Harvard Medical School She is the author of the highly successful Effective Helping: Interviewing and Counseling Techniques
Praise for 6 Questions That Can Change Your Life:
'Dr. Nowinski has created a wonderfully insightful and eye-opening guide to help you discover your true self, make lasting changes, and create a solid vision for your future.' - Barry Neil Kaufman, founder/director of The Option Institute and author of Happiness Is a Choice
'A timely, compassionate, and compelling book. Dr. Nowinski shows us how to rethink who we are, discover what's truly important to us, and empower ourselves to grow into the people we're meant to be. The real-life stories of men and women who have found fulfillment and happiness offer us both hope and inspiration.' - Bob Griffiths, author of Do What You Love for the Rest of Your Life
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Caracteristici
Half of all marriages end in divorce, and divorcing parents seek out prescriptive, helpful advice on how to cushion the impact on their children and guide them through the change in family structure
Nowinski draws on new research that shows that the first three years after separation is a critical window to ease the transition. Focusing on this period, he shows that it is important to be proactive because statistics show that this is when major problems surface
Nowinski identifies the different responses kids of different ages have - infants and toddlers, young children, and teenagers - and breaks it down so that parents have advice that is tailored to their children's critical developmental needs. In practical terms, he tells parents what to watch for, how kids of different ages and developmental stages respond. He also addresses parents's needs so that they have strength to be there effectively for their children