The 5 Rules of Marriage has the keys we always needed but didn't know "If I only knew..." Is a phrase we say too often after the fact, and in many cases after divorce. But when we know better, we do better, right? We, Lamont and Melissa Simmons, have been married twenty-four years, and we have three children. We started out in marriage knowing nothing and making a mess out of everything. After a few couples helped mentor and counsel us, we were able to turn things around in our marriage. So we "pay it forward" by starting and heading up And2 Marriage Ministry. It is geared towards being intimate, honest, and open, and allowing God to reveal the secret places in our marriages that need healing and growth.