There are many books written about life, marriage, and brokenness. This book is about what you do when everything is cracked and broken. Who do you turn to? I decided to stay around a secure circle of positive people, my church family, and learned to do for myself. The question in my spirit was, How do you take care of the small things around the house without asking the "male" to assist? Most of the time, they are looking for something in return. It's all about managing oneself. The basic things that go on around the home, do you know how to fix? Do you know which tools to use? Which hammer? Which screwdriver? Do you use a pipe wrench or an adjustable wrench? Do you know which one to use? Through all of this, I finally learned how to be independent of others and be totally dependent upon Christ.