EXTRA Extra, read all about her in "The Lust for Love," a newly penned relationship book by Extra from "For the Love of Ray J 2" on VH1 in which she opens up her heart and mind to reader's and gives her opinions on dating, lust, and love. Because she has experienced so much heartbreak, distress, and disappointment with relationships she offers up advice on how to deal with these emotions and how to prevent from feeling them again. Beginning with the introduction, Extra shows her softer side by explaining how she came to know and recognize love for the first time and the mistake that she made from the beginning. As the book progresses the chapters give details about Extra's love life, her sex life, and her single life. With each chapter she shows her intellect and deep feelings about every aspect of relationships. By the last chapter the reader will know "What men want," "What women want," what it means to be "Just Friends," how to deal with the "Fear of Love" and the "Fear of Rejection." The reader will also discover "What men look for" in a companion and "What it means to be a woman." Extra emphasizes that we need to "Change the dating game" and teaches us what "To say or not to say" when it comes to telling "Is your past present." The "Lust for Love" over all is a hot and steamy read that will have reader's wanting extra Extra.