Geneally, this book is about the myths in the relationships between black men and women, the relationship we have about each other because of stereotypes and sometimes ignorance. The games some of us play for money, sex and to control a relationship. Immature behavior and the quest of some men and women to use each other. The strain that violence puts on any relationship, and accepting the reality that being a black gay, bi-sexual and lesbian is a reality that exist in the black community and not labeled a sin where you can easily dismissed these men and women as not being real or human.