The purpose of this book is to tell the other side of the story by exposing the truth, along with my human frailty and the mistakes I've made along the way. It also brings to light the damaging effects of losing yourself when you are thrust into a space that God didn't intend for you to be in. In this time of social media popularity, truth is based on the number of likes and followers you have. When you're seeking validation and affirmation, it's easy to get drunk off people's applause. However, just because people are applauding, it doesn't mean that what you're saying is right. It's only right to those individuals that you have influenced. This is called a familiar spirit. We are living in a society where people run to what is popular, not necessarily what is true or right. But you can only hide for so long before issues start exposing themselves because people who have been hurt go on to hurt others. When you're broken and searching, you can create your identity through power, control, vanity, and even sex.