As a marriage counselor for the past twenty-five years, I have talked with many couples about their problems in interpersonal relationships. However, in the past few years, I have seen a specific pattern in the lives of the couples where the husband either wouldn't talk with his wife or showed interest in someone other than his wife. As I studied the behavior and personalities of these couples, I found one underlying similarity. Thus, the research and counseling sessions have prompted me to write The Perfect Woman's Flaw. I want to make it clear that both men and women have flaws in their personalities, but this research will be addressing a common flaw of many women. These pages have been written to identify the flaw and to suggest ways of overcoming this self-defeating behavior which alienates us in our relationships.