For 12 Steppers, AlAnoners, Teachers and Parents Seeking Relief from "Bad" Adult Kids. The idea of accepting "Poohfectness - not Perfection " - resides deep in each of us. Our urge to be simple, honest and loving with those around us cries out from deep within us. Instead we have children who grow up to say they were reared "dysfunctionally" - before they can even pronounce or spell the word correctly. We drive ourselves "Dysfunctional" in our search to be Perfect Parents of Adult Children - in our Search for the Mysterious, Elusive Perfect Parent-Child" relationship. The Pooh of Parenting hears gentle Winnie-the-Pooh, the guru of the 100 Aker Woods. Pooh Bear IS Poohfectness - a realistic attitude for all of us. Dennis Hooker has been seeking/finding Poohfectness in the 12 Step programs/AlAnon for over a quarter century.