"When we find another soul, we are finding another particle of God. When we reveal our soul, we reveal a particle of God. We give something divine to each other. Then God will guide us, allowing us to make the best of helping each other along the way. That's what true love is about. And that's how being in a relationship can become a spiritual path-a path within a spiritual path, if you will." -The Guide's wisdom in Jill Loree's words The Pull is about discovering the truth about relationships: they are the doorway through which we ultimately can come to know ourselves, God and another person; through them, we can learn to fully live. CONTENTS Part I: Connecting The Cosmic Pull Toward Union The Counter-Pull: Frustration Cooperation, Communication, Union The Spiritual Significance of Human Relationship Part II: Attracting Pleasure: The Full Pulsation Life The Forces of Love, Eros and Sex The Spiritual Symbolism and Significance of Sexuality Part III: Matching Mutuality: A Cosmic Principle and Law A Venture in Mutuality: Changing our Negative Will Affecting and Being Affected Part IV: Uniting Man and Woman Self-Fulfillment Through Self-Realization as a Man or a Woman The New Man and the New Woman The Evolution and Spiritual Meaning of Marriage Part V: Loving Aspects of the Anatomy of Love: Self-Love, Structure, Freedom Life is Relationship Relating: Sadness versus Depression Three Aspects that Prevent Loving Love: Not a Commandment"