The Quandary is about breaking the cycle to supporting codependent relationships. It begins with helping you identify the warning signs if you are an enabler, creating an action plan after each chapter to make life altering decisions and ultimately getting to a place you make yourself a priority, and not feel guilty. Sarita Lynn shares her personal encounters enabling destructive behaviors for over 27 years to include enabling her brother with a drug addiction who later died of an overdose. There is a price to pay for being an enabler.