These are not abstract studies but demonstrations of where gender resides, how it begins and where it leads. The reader allow himself to become involved in the process and discovers his own generic insights, so as to make a habit of gender wisdom. In both of these essays we specifically set ourselves the task of defining gender from the point of view of mature human nature while we search for the roots of it in sexual human being. We base our inquiry on experience, such as of parental communication with children and immature adults. Also we hope to confirm the feeling, or feel, (tact) we have for gender, as distinct from conception and thought, not so that we can build some logical scheme based on this feeling but in order to explore and describe it sufficiently for eventual physical recognition. Equally of interest are the essays Sexual Attraction and the Procreative Urge (2019) and The Sexual Mood, both available as booklets.