The information in this book all boils down to the key elements of meeting and attracting men, the courtship process, and setting yourself up for a successful long-term relationship with a man. Psychologists, social scientists, writers, thinkers, etc. tend to focus on the "later stages" of love when people have found each other or are already married. Maybe it's because they're in a lab all day, but I don't think they understand that relationships don't just happen and come together in a test tube. There's a whole universe of stuff that happens before two people arrive at a committed relationship, but these earlier stages and processes don't get much attention. For lots of women, just finding a great guy can be tough enough. First she has to find him and meet him. Then she has to attract him and be attracted to him. Then she has to get to know him and make sure he isn't some player or whatever. Then she has to figure out how to keep the chemistry alive and stay connected and intimate. (This last one can be like pulling teeth with some men ). It's an incredible process that can be overwhelming for lots of women. So why does it have to be so hard with men? Why do ALL of these things have to fall into place with men before any of the deeper feelings and longer term commitments come into play?... Well, that's what we're here to talk about.