How long are you willing to stay depressed about something that happened to you yesterday, today or 20 years ago. If you ever want to have a shot at life, you must release your offenders and press toward your destiny. Time is moving on and as long as you will not forgive, you are at a standstill. Instead of walking in the offense, go the other direction and walk in love. Instead of doing it your way, do it God's way that's where your peace abides. Keep in mind how many times a day you ask God for forgiveness and the mercy that you receive, give to others.