Today is the day for you to start unleashing more of the Winner within As you read the following you will begin to rid yourself of the negative attitudes and thoughts that have dictated your bad outcomes thus far, and you will begin to see things from a new perspective and process of thought. You will give yourself the okay to move forward in your life and career and enjoy it. Read on and find out how to change your thinking, and your life for the better of your present and your future. ========================= Table of Contents Conversing with the Winners8 "The Simon Effect"9 Childhood Conditioning9 Making a Solid, Determined Choice to be a Winner10 Firmly decide, and firmly commit to the fact, that you are a winner.10 Set and commit to a start date (Your "January 1st, so to speak).10 There are 2 kinds of prison; which are you in? How do you get out?11 Emotional Childhood Trauma11 Self-respect in Relation to Self-Esteem11 The True Root of Healthy Self-Esteem12 Winning Defined12 Balancing the 10 Parts of the Life Dynamic12 Leisure Time & Socialization13 Family Relationships13 Professional/Career13 Money and Finances13 Present & Future Goals14 Education14 Contributions14 Personal Thought Life14 Physical Care15 Spirituality15 Giving Permission to Win Regularly16 Accepting the Truth16 Facts about Setting Missions & Goals16 Always Be Specific16 Why are You are Here?17 Be S.M.A.R.T.E.R.17 S17 M17 A18 R18 T18 E18 R18 Be Introspective19 Patience is a Virtue19 Always Set Personal & Professional Goals, No Matter How Small19 Dream Like a Child; Plan Like a Grown-up19 Look and Feel Alive 20 What Have I Accomplished?20 Your Personal Mission Statement20 Choose to Win, and then See Yourself Winning20 Mental Coaching21 Reprogramming the Subconscious21 The Price21 Your Coach21 Talk to Winners and Successes22 Positive Self-Talk22 Dress for Success22 Read23 A Winning Home Life Atmosphere23 Time Alone to Meditate23 Get Rid of the Rubbish23 Education Breeds Results24 Throw the Excuses Out the Window24 Negative School Experiences24 To Keep Winning, You Must Keep Learning24 Now Is the Time 24 Soak Up Knowledge On Your Own25 What Looks Like Instant Success Really Took Years25 Communication Skills25 Stay Focused on Your Mission25 Think First26 Voice Tone & Emphasis26 Listen & Learn26 Body Language26 Journal26 Respect27 Hear First27 Stay Simple27 Personal Life Relationships27 Relationship Conflict28 Winners Survive28 Differences28 Adjusting Your Sails28 Children29 Win at Work29 F.A.M.E.29 Think About Inspirational People30 Exclude Excuses30 You Are Responsible30 Self-Discipline30 Be Where You Are30 Share Yourself31 Serve31 Happiness31 Meaning in Life31 Your Life's Mission31 Be Financially Healthy31 Make a Decision to Organize32 Working & Dreaming32 Taxes32 Borrowing32 Investing32 Save33 The Water that gives Life33 The Spirit33 The Body33 Rest & Play33 Time for rest must be taken if you want to win.34 Spirituality is Not Religion34 Move Your Body34 The Past34 Clear the Air35 Giving Yourself Permission to be a Winner35 Look In the Mirror35 Think Like a Champ35 Adversity35