Hi You are looking at this book for a reason and I commend you for that. My guess is you are trying to figure out whether you should stay in your relationship or leave. It's such a hard decision - isn't it? Sometimes even when we know the right thing to do it's still very difficult. You either don't want to hurt the other person or you just don't know how to get out. You may even feel like you have so many years invested that you just want to try to make it work. Maybe you really want to stay but you're not sure if it is the right thing for you. You may want to leave but you're not sure if it's the right thing to do. I believe this book may help guide you in the right direction. It will get you thinking about what you want and don't want out of a relationship, that's for sure. Good luck