Sometimes a man has to choose between two very different kinds of love. But what if there is no real choice? When Stefan meets Adri, it is love at first sight. It does, however, take some time before he recognizes his own feelings. He's a married man-a family man-with a strong sense of responsibility. In Dutch society of 1935, sex between men over the age of twenty-one might be legal, but acceptance is still a long way off. As a working-class man without a steady job, he doesn't have the means to ignore society's rules and create his own little paradise in which both he and his lover can be together, without his family having to suffer poverty and shame. Despite all this, the lovers find a way to carve out moments of intimacy and happiness. Then the Germans march into Holland and nothing will ever be the same again. The occupation, which will last five long years, offers both danger and chances, but choices have to be made-choices of the head and choices of the heart.