If only someone would have given me some input that told me what marriage could be like, or maybe some book that could have given me instruction on what to look out for to give warning before the marriage went downhill or when the other person was not right for me. Some sort of instruction manual that could give me an idea what goes on in marriages and what kind of obstacles we might encounter, and does our situation have hope, need counseling or do we just walk away? Is it possible that I would have made a different choice and not said "I do"? If someone would write a book about this kind of information, it would be very valuable and save a lot of people a lot of frustration and pain. So Miss J wrote the book. Examples come from my life and what I have witnessed others experiencing. All examples are there to help you see beyond appearances, and give you something that causes you to take a good honest look at the relationship. Make any needed adjustments before it goes too far or becomes too late. So read through the different examples and statements, take what is valuable to you and use it to develop healthier relationships. Much Love and Wishing you the Courage to Create Outstanding Marriages Miss J