Do you have thirty minutes to invest in potentially saving yourself years of heartache and sorrow? Then please read this book. It will take thirty minutes to read the book from cover to cover. "What Not To Do If You Marry An Abuser" was written by a Christian woman who spent more than two decades living a secret life of fear and shame as a battered wife. Despite the fact that she poured her heart and soul into changing her husband's abusive behavior and saving her marriage, the abuse did not stop, and her marriage was not saved. It is her prayer that her story will pierce your heart with the truth, and that you will not do what she did. It is her prayer that you will learn from her mistakes. It is her prayer that this book will change your life.