Even though it is a common belief that unmarried middle-aged men are confirmed bachelors, this book is written for those who feel differently. They want to be married. They want to share their life with someone and enjoy years of building memories that they can look back on in old age with the feeling of satisfaction. Yet, they are somehow misguided. Either by their own insecurities, or by prior unconscious lessons learned in childhood. This book is a discussion of these topics with insight into the issues that make us stuck with repeating negative patterns. Although it is written from a male point of view, the frank and honest discussions offer helpful guidance for women too. Mr. Stok writes from "life experience" with an air of knowledge and with thought. His discussions and methods of presentation give the reader effective guidance and understanding, something that one can take with them and use throughout the rest of their life. ISBN 978-1-4357-0147-2