Love, is described in the bible as the greatest gift of all. We all want love and to be loved. It sounds like a simple thing to do yet loving unconditionally is one of the hardest things to do. You see, we all put conditions on our love, yet we don't often see the conditions we add to loving someone. When you think about your spouse or someone you love and have to describe why you love them, most people name things that they do like, " he is considerate," "she supports me," "he's a good kid," "she's never given me any problems." If the person you loved stopped doing these things, does your love stop? Your love may not stop but unfortunately we start to show love in unloving ways. This is my story of how I stopped showing love to my daughter because I found out she was gay so I started to push and shove my her until God's love for me changed my perspective and our relationship changed to when push come to love.