This book is for the family member that I AM has said "Since you have asked for a discerning heart and not for long life or wealth for yourself, nor have asked for the death of your enemies but for discernment in administering justice, I will do what you have asked. I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be. Moreover, I will give you what you have not asked for both riches and honor so that in your lifetime you will have no equal among kings. And if you walk in my ways and obey my statues and commands as David your father did, I will give you a long life" 1 Kings 3:10-14. It is time for you to awake and see that it is not a dream and with the powerful words in this book you are going to get to your destiny if it is God's Will. We are going to explore how not to react that family member(s) that get an enjoyment out of seeing you suffer. The solutions that are revealed in this book are tested and tried.