When to Cry when you?re Born to be Strong is inspired by the little girl deep inside Elaina Jade, who always wanted to tell her story. But throughout life she ran into roadblocks, she got discouraged, she lost hope, she lost herself and she learned how to detach herself from the world. Now she has a chance to tell her story. She Is a Survivor. In, When to Cry when you?re Born to be Strong Elaina Jade, will take you on her journey of how she overcame, her life struggles. Know matter what was thrown her way, no matter how hard times got, she still Survived. Her mother was an addict, her brother was running from the law, and she was left at a safe house without knowing her mother's whereabouts. Trying to stay focused at home and school and carry the weight of the world on her shoulders. Elainas? only hope was to Survive.