Pleasure in intimate touch, great sex, affection and a caring relationship is one of life's joys. After trauma, however, relationships may become tense because of the fears of the survivor, or his or her partner. This book is a practical guide to fulfilling love, affectionate relationships and great sex after experiencing harm. It also helps those who love you. Charlene Smith is an award winning writer and rape survivor who has counseled trauma survivors across the world. She has worked with major research organizations including the Centers for Disease Control and the World Health Organization and been invited to address conferences across the world. Profiled twice by Time magazine, CBS 60 Minutes and others she believes that pain can open the door to the best years of your life, it's your choice.