Black excellence is achieved when we first remedy black shortcomings.
Oftentimes, black people do not have the space for transparent conversation about community development without the conversation being used to discredit them later. But while the culture is not monolithic, and everyone's experience is unique, unhealthy trends need to be discussed--to clear the way for meaningful action and change that matters.
In this groundbreaking, straight-talking book, Maliek Blade addresses absent fathers, the plight of the single mother, baby-mama drama, toxic masculinity, and why romance seems to be an emotional rollercoaster. With every finger pointed at a problem comes an open hand with a solution. Maliek challenges men to unlearn and rethink what it means to be a man and father. Brothers and sisters, be prepared to look back and unpack how your views on the following topics were shaped:

• A father's responsibilities
• Sex and self-control
• Emotional maturity
• Friends vs. yes men
• Your parents' influence on your personality
• Mental health