Dr. Tiffany Newman says it best "This is the ultimate woman's encyclopedia for achieving self respect and inner merit while exploring the intricacies of dating, in pursuit of a good man." This book tells all from men's point of view, it makes no apologies and most of all it suggests fundamental changes that women must make on an individual and collective level to begin to unravel the brainwashing that has so far crippled them mentally and emotionally. The subject is in itself controversial as it pits gender against gender and it challenges women to look at themselves honestly and understand how men view them, then make realistic choices about the social gender issues that separate them from what they yearn for. This book gives women permission to break with protocol and step outside of the box in order to succeed at finding a worthwhile life mate.