On the surface, this book is a TALE OF TRIUMPH over the adversity of abuse, confusion and desperation lasting 14 years. It is an easy read which serves as a RECOVERY GUIDE that is filled with real answers, practical suggestions and spiritual power - helping women in particular to TURN THEIR PAIN INTO GAIN. If you are suffering any form of domestic violence or abuse at home, this book is the perfect tool to help you gain perspective. The nuggets of wisdom Vivien shares will enlighten you to KNOW WHAT TO DO about your situation plus it will give you the COURAGE to deal with it The author has 'been there and done that' so speaks openly about the issues and concerns many women face such as: Why does he do it? What is the best response? What have you done wrong? What can you do to protect yourself How can you stop the violence? How to neutralise the poison of emotional abuse Protecting your children Ways to overcome the shame Where can you go for help? Dealing with the Practicalities The Stages of Recovery Healing from the trauma Finding hope in God