Are you looking for a certain kind of person or are you becoming one? Christians are fighting against a conflicting cultural ethos; reducing the beauty of God-invented sexuality to just another entertainment option. However, lifelong marriage, though less common today, is still God's plan for most people... and isn't God's plan the best plan? Alex and Marni Chediak show that it is more important to become a certain type of person than it is to find a certain type of person. They offer wise guidance in how we should go about choosing a partner. Alex Chediak has spent the last 7 years in ministries to young people at Summer Camps, High Schools and Colleges. He is the editor of 'Five Paths to the Love of your Life' - a resource manual about the issues in this book. Alex is currently an Apprentice at The Bethlehem Institute, Minneapolis.