The choices women make are their individual ones. Never cause another woman to suffer because they don't have interest in what you do. We are each different. What your conscience can handle every other woman's cannot. I am not willing to do anything to get a man or keep one. I don't look for his money, power, position, or looks. Those are incidentals and that means nothing to me. It may mean something to you. If that has anything to do with it, i will stay alone and earn my own income without one and your estimation of me as a woman because i am not willing to do what you do for one in any of those categories.